Sunday Chat

Kwanzaa: Day#2


Herí za Kwanzaa! (Happy Kwanzaa in KiSwahili)

Herí za Kwanzaa, readers! I hope your holiday season is ending well. 

Welcome to the second day of Kwanzaa! If you haven’t already, check out the giveaway from the first day of Kwanzaa on yesterday’s post.

Today we celebrate the principle of Kujichagulia or self-determination! 

On this day, our goal is “to define ourselves, name ourselves, create for ourselves, and speak for ourselves.”

The Adinkra symbol for Kujichagulia is an Ashanti stool of royalty. This symbol calls for us to exercise, individually and collectively, the diligence and determination required to make ourselves the royal authority for the shaping of our lives and destiny.

“I am my best work - a series of road maps, reports, recipes, doodles, and prayers from the front lines.”
 ― Audre Lorde

This is slightly childish, but there’s something fun about saying the name of today’s Kwanzaa principle. It’s a throwback to elementary school when we learned the Kwanzaa Song, and any multisyllabic word got a good chuckle from us kids. So, saying Ku-ji-cha-gu-lia never fails to give me a good chuckle even to this day.

From an adult standpoint, though, the ability to carry out self-defining or self-fashioning traits is a bit tougher on the sensibilities.

In a world where everything seems to be carried out as mere performance and based on trends, it’s hard to know what you want or be your authentic self sometimes. It almost seems as if we’re all scrambling to stay “on brand” and caping for likes from a silent audience.

In 2021, I found myself taking several much-needed social media breaks due to life circumstances and out of a general feeling of exhaustion.

My intention for 2022 is to take more time to focus on life outside of my screens.

In the moments where I delete my apps and spend time face-to-face with family or researching and catching up on my school/work, I feel that same type of awe that I did as a kid at how much the little things like a song can amaze me and buoy my spirits. There’s almost a nostalgic quality that comes in those moments.

Going offline also brings about a clear distinction for me about my reason for doing things. In those times, I’m not worried about if what I’m reading is “on trend” or if it counts toward my yearly Goodreads challenges, I’m just indulging in a hobby I love.

This feeling of freedom is something that feels refreshing now that I’ve been online for a decade as a social media user, being influenced and posting as a micro-“influencer.”

Cheers to 2022 being a year of self-discovery and self-fulfillment!

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