Kujichagulia – Self-Determination [Kwanzaa]

Sunday Chat

Kwanzaa: Day#2


Herí za Kwanzaa! (Happy Kwanzaa in KiSwahili)

Herí za Kwanzaa, readers! I hope your holiday season is ending well. 

Welcome to the second day of Kwanzaa! If you haven’t already, check out the giveaway from the first day of Kwanzaa on yesterday’s post.

Today we celebrate the principle of Kujichagulia or self-determination! 

On this day, our goal is “to define ourselves, name ourselves, create for ourselves, and speak for ourselves.”

The Adinkra symbol for Kujichagulia is an Ashanti stool of royalty. This symbol calls for us to exercise, individually and collectively, the diligence and determination required to make ourselves the royal authority for the shaping of our lives and destiny.

“I am my best work - a series of road maps, reports, recipes, doodles, and prayers from the front lines.”
 ― Audre Lorde

This is slightly childish, but there’s something fun about saying the name of today’s Kwanzaa principle. It’s a throwback to elementary school when we learned the Kwanzaa Song, and any multisyllabic word got a good chuckle from us kids. So, saying Ku-ji-cha-gu-lia never fails to give me a good chuckle even to this day.

From an adult standpoint, though, the ability to carry out self-defining or self-fashioning traits is a bit tougher on the sensibilities.

In a world where everything seems to be carried out as mere performance and based on trends, it’s hard to know what you want or be your authentic self sometimes. It almost seems as if we’re all scrambling to stay “on brand” and caping for likes from a silent audience.

In 2021, I found myself taking several much-needed social media breaks due to life circumstances and out of a general feeling of exhaustion.

My intention for 2022 is to take more time to focus on life outside of my screens.

In the moments where I delete my apps and spend time face-to-face with family or researching and catching up on my school/work, I feel that same type of awe that I did as a kid at how much the little things like a song can amaze me and buoy my spirits. There’s almost a nostalgic quality that comes in those moments.

Going offline also brings about a clear distinction for me about my reason for doing things. In those times, I’m not worried about if what I’m reading is “on trend” or if it counts toward my yearly Goodreads challenges, I’m just indulging in a hobby I love.

This feeling of freedom is something that feels refreshing now that I’ve been online for a decade as a social media user, being influenced and posting as a micro-“influencer.”

Cheers to 2022 being a year of self-discovery and self-fulfillment!

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The Perks of Taking a Social Media Break

Sunday Chat: The Perks of Taking a Break


Between 2019 and 2020, the Statista Research Department found that the average social media user spends approximately 145 minutes per day online scrolling on social apps. In the U.S., citizens’ online time clocks in at about 2 hours and 6 minutes per day.

As a person who came of age when the Internet was just taking off in the 90s, I can’t help but think about how drastically my world has changed as the Internet became more accessible.

Growing up, “computer time” was a “sacred” thing regulated to my middle school computer or the precious amount of minutes that came from hoarding those trial CDs from AOL’s dial-up in the 90s. For me, this meant Internet time was spent trying not to die of dysentery on the Oregon Trails and fighting to keep my Neopets alive or catching up with the boys from B2K in the 90s.

After the time ran down on the AOL free trials and my computer class ended, I put away my virtual ambition and penchant for celebrity gossip and went about my life. But, with the Internet being a 24 hour/365-day thing, it’s hard to disconnect time from virtual reality and recognize when it’s time for a break.

Snapshots from my Break collage:

-Photos from sitting by the Gulf of Mexico (palm trees by the water & a sunset with water in the distance)
-a sun hat with "do not disturb" embroidered with book laid vertical & sunglasses
-a white flower overlaid
-cup of tea & "We Are Inevitable" by Gayle Forman laid on top wood table
-Two album covers: "Pink Noise" by Laura Mvula & "Frontiers" by Journey

This past month, with the exception of live-tweeting the Olympic Games, I haven’t felt the motivation to be active on social media like I once was. And this is saying something since, according to my phone log, I average roughly 9.3 hours a day (way above the average American I know) of screen time thanks to my job and being a micro social media “influencer” in the book-o-sphere.

Having this time to sit and reflect has been nice.

For instance, I recently hit my Goodreads Challenge goal and have been enjoying my Summer Break by resting and sitting by the Gulf of Mexico with my Mom and brother or lazing away time in our family’s sunroom. Getting this moment to disconnect and realize that there’s more to life than your subscriber and like count has helped put things in perspective for me.

Sunday Vibes: “Be Good to Yourself” by Journey & “Safe Passage” by Laura Mvula

Drop down below in the comments and let me know what’s up with you, bookish peeps!